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Requests to Go Up Steps/Stairs
I am an ambulatory wheelchair user. The majority of my friends live in homes that have steps. Recently this has been affecting my mental health. When my friends get together at one of their homes, and I can’t go, I feel sad. They say, “oh, there are just four steps if you feel up to it?” It makes me hate muscular dystrophy.
There is something special about being in the home of someone you care about, and it can be enjoyable and relaxing. I know that I can meet my friends outside in public, but a lot of the time I don’t want to go out in general, it can be very stressful.
How do you feel about requests for you to go upstairs? Have you ever obliged your friends and the next day regretted it because you were in pain?
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