Party of 9 – a Column by Betty Vertin

It’s been a couple of weeks since my last column. I’ve missed writing them. I can never explain how therapeutic it is for me to share my life as a caregiver through writing. I have seven children: Lexi, 24, Max, 19, Chance, 18, Rowen, 16, Charlie, 14, Mary, 10, and…

I am going at a pace I can’t maintain. As a former half-marathon runner, I can feel the burn in the pit of my stomach as I write this. I can feel the heat in my legs and cheeks as I push myself to the finish line. Except this time,…

I’m writing this column as my husband, Jason, drives our family through the last rolling hills on the eastern side of the Rocky Mountains. Last week, we took an epic road trip from our quiet hometown in Nebraska to the eclectic sounds and neon lights of the Las Vegas Strip.

I don’t gamble. I don’t know how to do it. I wouldn’t even know how to place a bet, and the only gambling game I recognize by name is poker. However, for someone who’s never gambled, I sure understand what it must feel like. How? Because I’m the caregiver of…

“Mommy, hold me. Mommy, hold me.” These were the words I heard repeatedly from my 3-year-old daughter, Callie, during the four days we spent in the neuromuscular clinic with her older brothers last week. It wasn’t normal for her to want to be held. I’ve never traveled with a stroller…

My husband, Jason, and I are parents to seven children: Lexi, 23; Max, 19; Chance, 17; Rowen, 16; Charlie, 14; Mary, 10; and Callie, 3. This week we’re traveling with five of them: Max, Rowen, and Charlie, who are our three sons with Duchenne muscular dystrophy (DMD), and our…

Superheroes were a large part of my life less than a decade ago. I am a boy mom. We had four sons in five years, and our house quickly became a lived-in museum of all things boys. Power Rangers, X-Men, and Marvel and DC Comics characters were like family members…

My heart is walking a tightrope. I’m a 45-year-old wife to Jason and mother to our seven children: Lexi, 23, Max, 19, Chance, 17, Rowen, 16, Charlie, 14, Mary, 10, and Callie, 3. Three of our children, Max, Rowen, and Charlie, are living with Duchenne muscular dystrophy (DMD). This…

I’ll be straightforward about caregiving: It’s exhausting. I’m the mother of seven children: Lexi, 23, Max, 19, Chance, 17, Rowen, 16, Charlie, 14, Mary, 10, and Callie, 3. I’m also a caregiver to Max, Rowen, and Charlie, who have Duchenne muscular dystrophy (DMD). You are catching me during a challenging…

I read a quote the other day on Facebook: “When you are raising babies, you feel how long the days are. When raising teens, you feel with every single bone in your body how short the years are.” Days later, I still carry those words with me as a mom…