Party of 9 — Betty Vertin

A banner for Betty Vertin's "Party of 9" that depicts a large family walking across a field at sunset..Betty Vertin is a mother and writer living in rural Hastings, Nebraska, with her husband and seven children. Betty is a caregiver to three sons, Max, Rowen, and Charlie. Her oldest was diagnosed with Duchenne muscular dystrophy in 2010 at 4 years old. The other boys were diagnosed with the same in the following year. Although Duchenne occasionally crashes the party, it has not kept her large family from celebrating and enjoying life. She writes her column in hopes of sharing her family’s experiences with others on a similar journey.

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An annual physical brings a sigh of relief to this Duchenne MD caregiver

I had my annual physical last week and when the doctor told me I was in good health, it was a relief. I let out a breath I hadn’t realized I was holding. I am a mother to seven: Lexi, 25; Max, 20; Chance, 19; Rowen, 17; Charlie, 15; Mary,…

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The remedy for my early summer caregiver burnout? Having fun.

June is a quiet month here in rural Nebraska. Most days, only neighbors drive on the street outside our home, and you can hear the wind moving through the plains. That may sound boring to some of you from the big cities, but here it is supposed to be relaxing…

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Helping my sons with DMD make connections has also helped me

Here are some facts about me: I am an introvert, I am quiet, and my strongest voice is the written word. I grew up in the foster care system and experienced childhood trauma that makes it hard for me to know how to be around people. I am a mom…

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Talking with my daughter about her journey with DMD carrier status

I have been writing here about my family since August 2021. My husband, Jason, and I share seven children: Lexi, 25; Max, 20; Chance, 19; Rowen, 17; Charlie, 15; Mary, 11; and Callie, 4. Max, Rowen, and Charlie have Duchenne muscular dystrophy (DMD). In my first column,…

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I am watching a child lose his independence for the third time

My son Charlie has recently been unable to get into his power wheelchair on his own, and I know I am watching him lose the ability to ambulate, as I did with two of my other sons. Charlie, 15, like his brothers Max, 20, and Rowen, 17, lives with…

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When school is out, my sons with DMD get into their summer groove

This past winter in rural Nebraska was mild, with no real snow and only a handful of very cold weeks. But as it has gotten warmer and the grass starts turning green, I very much appreciate the arrival of spring. My children, who will be out of school for summer…

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I won’t apologize for having 3 children with Duchenne MD

I have always been an open book about my life. I am a writer, caregiver, and mother living in the Midwest with my family. My husband and I have seven children: Lexi, 24; Max, 20; Chance, 18; Rowen, 17; Charlie, 15; Mary, 11; and Callie, 4. Max, Rowen, and Charlie…

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Making time for self-care is vital in DMD caregiving

I live in rural Nebraska with my husband, Jason, and seven children. Three of them — Max, 20, Rowen, 17, and Charlie, 15 — live with Duchenne muscular dystrophy (DMD), so I am a mom to many as well as a caregiver. At times, it feels like I’m giving…

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I’m grateful for meaningful conversations with my adult children

As parents, we dedicate our lives to raising our children. We work long and hard, striving to meet their needs, teach kindness, encourage a strong work ethic, and foster self-advocacy. Our goal is to help them grow into successful adults. As a mom of many, I can see my and…


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