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Having Assistance with Pleasure from a Sex Worker
Have you ever hired a sex worker to help provide you with pleasure and an intimate experience? Did you hire a sex worker from a place that specializes in providing people with disabilities sexual pleasure? If not, was the sex worker knowledgeable about disability?
I believe that there’s nothing wrong with providing people with disabilities sexual experiences as a profession. Those of us with disabilities have sexual needs too and sometimes need help achieving that. It should be viewed as a human requirement as nonchalant as having someone assist you with brushing your teeth.
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Thanks for the post. Lot of people would not be comfortable bringing up this topic. Yes intimacy and being sexual are a basic human need, I completely agree. I am not sure there is a place that would provide that kind of service for a person with a disability. I have never heard of that. Sex in general can be such a taboo subject matter with many people.
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Hi Larry. I’m glad you liked this topic. Dani and I always appreciate feedback. Here’s a video I saw a long time ago on YouTube about the controversy of medically assisted sex for the disabled. I hope you find it as insightful as I did.
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I agree that there should be no shame, for anybody disabled or not. The whole “oldest profession” should be legalized and cleaned up. This would put a handle on disease prevention and sex trafficking. It’s another one of those things that many do, but few admit!
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Exactly! If it weren’t such a taboo subject more people would also have a happier sex life and there may even be less STIs and teenage pregnancies. It’s a natural human need.
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Personally, I think that love and sex are incredibly important in our lives. My disability has represented a womans repelente, before, when I was strong, I always have a girlfriend a woman in my life etc, I was married 15 years, and when the dystrophy get worse, my marriage got to an end. After my divorce, having a date has been probably the most humiliating and painful process that I had ever gone through, because of the rejection, you know, and God knows how badly I needed someone. BUT, I recently found someone, and even though it is kind of a complicated relationship, it has been the best feeling in my life. The sex and love have given me all the full I need to keep going around. I do not know how long it is going to last, but, I will definitely keep pursuing happiness in wherever shape I am.
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I’m glad to hear that you have found someone who makes you happy, Rodrigo. I understand what you mean when you said that dating is painful. I went through a big breakup this past year and am still recovering from it. I’ve decided to take a break from the dating world for a while and I’m happy without someone in my life right now. It’s always nice to hear stories like yours to give me hope to persist.
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