Last week’s column, “Uniting to Effect Positive Change
,” focused on the bigger picture of advocacy. This form of advocating is about a larger movement and changing the society we live in. I have heard from many people wanting to get more involved. I cherish this because the time is now and there is still much to do.
I want to continue this theme in another way and talk about a different type of advocating. My statement for everyone is simple: We must be our own health advocate. If we don’t ask questions and learn about our own conditions, we risk missing out on the best possible care.
Before I received my diagnosis of LGMD2L
, a form of limb-girdle muscular dystrophy
, I was a big weightlifter and fitness nut. I remember the guru of the muscle and fitness craze was a man by the name of Joe Weider
. His mantra was the “instinctive principle” of training. Simplified, this tenet meant that you listened to your body.
My LGMD2L journey started in 2006. I was still weightlifting, and one day, I decided that I would try to leg press one leg at a time. I was able to do 250 pounds with my right leg, but only 150 pounds with my left. Something wasn’t right.
The doctor I saw said I was just going through normal aging. But when I insisted, he reluctantly went ahead with an assessment, and at some point, I could see the lightbulb go on. He finally wheeled his chair up to me and got within a couple of inches of my face. He then asked me, “Ralph, is someone poisoning you?”
I decided right then that I needed to move on. I connected with the Muscular Dystrophy Association,
and went on to see a great physician in North Carolina. This led to my diagnosis a few years later, once my form of muscular dystrophy was discovered in 2010
. My physician then recommended that I find a new doctor, one with a stronger knowledge of LGMD2L.
Many people are trying to understand their illness. I always recommend getting more information and asking questions. If I had stayed with my first provider, I don’t think I would have had the great treatment I’ve received.
We need to be asking questions and relating what we are feeling. Giving our doctor a complete picture helps. But even then, be ready to challenge and ask even seemingly silly questions.
I’ll relate one more example to highlight how critical this is. Last year, I discovered my pulse was very low. I had taken my blood pressure, and the machine indicated a pulse of 33. I was referred to a cardiologist and given an EKG
. It turned out my pulse was 66, but I was “skipping” every other beat. Premature ventricular contractions (PVCs
) are fairly innocuous, but when you are having up to 50 percent skips, it’s a problem.
I was seen by several cardiologists. All mentioned strong interventions. I was told about arrhythmia medicine, which has the potential for side effects. I was also told about cardiac ablation
. During the process, I had asked a simple question, “Could the recent increase in the dosage of my beta blocker medicine (for blood pressure) have lowered my heart rate enough to have caused this?” I was told that it was possible, but this was not pursued.
The next week, I called my primary doctor and asked him if we could wean me off the beta blocker. We could substitute another medication for my blood pressure. He proceeded with this idea, and within a month, I was off the beta blocker and the PVCs had disappeared.
These examples are just that, examples, but I could tell you many more stories. I have also heard hundreds of others from people I’ve talked to.
My comments are not meant to show a lack of confidence in the medical profession. Quite the opposite, most of us who have found a great physician realize that these leaders can be life-saving. But even the best won’t always understand your body’s reactions to treatments and your responses to interventions like you do. By asking the right questions, we can be a part of the solution.
A suggestion I always make is that the night before each appointment, go through your treatment and write down two or three questions. Also, write down a couple of things you think your doctor may not understand about what you’re feeling and how your symptoms affect you.
Remember, always be your own best advocate!