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Mondays are one of my favorite days of the week as a busy mom to seven children: Lexi, 24; Max, 19; Chance, 18; Rowen, 16; Charlie, 14; Mary, 11; and Callie, 3. I’m also a caregiver to Max, Rowen and Charlie, who all live with Duchenne muscular dystrophy (DMD).

My daughter Jill and my wife, Wendy, are my primary caregivers. In August, Jill and Wendy traveled to Iceland together. The day before their departure, we had a “bon voyage” family picnic. It was a lovely gathering, but I ended up with a couple of bug bites on my left…

Dear doctors, I am writing to share my knowledge about living with a rare, chronic condition called limb-girdle muscular dystrophy. There are many types of muscular dystrophy (MD), ranging in age of onset, severity, and common symptoms and comorbidities, such as heart and lung involvement. But…

One thing I love about living in the Midwest is enjoying all four seasons. The last week of summer is nearly over, and autumn officially begins next week. On a walk yesterday, I noticed the first leaves changing and drifting to the ground. Another thing about me is that I…

Living with Duchenne muscular dystrophy means every trip to the hospital is key to my survival. From heart scans to routine medical appointments, leaving home is never simple. I rely on my mom to ferry me to every checkup in our family’s wheelchair-accessible vehicle. Earlier this year, when…

My facioscapulohumeral muscular dystrophy (FSHD) causes a variety of symptoms that affect every aspect of my life. Sitting up in bed is a challenge. Getting dressed is tiring. Standing up has become a laborious process. I’ve had to adapt the way I brush my teeth. Eating is a…

On Aug. 21, I wrote to my local newspaper here in Singapore about a gap in housing policy that affects younger adults with severe disabilities. I’m one of those younger adults: I’m 29 and have Duchenne muscular dystrophy, a progressive condition that leaves me fully dependent on caregivers…

I’ve written columns about community and connection. I chose these topics because they’re relevant not only to those of us with rare, chronic conditions, but to everyone. I write through the lens of living with limb-girdle muscular dystrophy, but I strive to connect to all of society.

I spent part of this week with three of my sons in Denver. On Wednesday, they had a clinical trial appointment, followed by an appointment at the assistive technology clinic to try out some robotic arms. In anticipation of the latter, I began to reflect on my sons’ journey…